Category Archives: Family

Concert Season

It is that time of year again when one concert is followed very closely by the next.  At the beginning of November both L15 and A 13 participated in the Kids Helping Kids concert to raise money for the Peaceful Children’s Homes in Cambodia.  L15 has been involved for several years as a soloist  but she also took some of the administration this time.  A13 performed was invited as a soloist for the first time this year.

The following weekend Stellae Boreales performed at the Young String Performers Foundation concert.  The group has been invited by the YSPF before but this time L15 was also invited to perform a solo, the first movement of Vivaldi’s Summer.  During the week Stellae Boreales performed at an Awards Gala and tomorrow morning, I have just been informed, the senior ensemble will be playing at the Senate as part of National Child Day.

Next Saturday is the November Stellae Boreales Fundraising concert, where both girls with play solos.  L15 will play all of Summer and A13 will play the 1st mvt. of the Concerto in B minor by de Beriot.

When the calendar turns over to December the concertos will be replaced (temporarily) by Christmas music as the girls play at banquets and Christmas services.  So you see some things haven’t changed in our life.

Time for family

It is a week now since we said goodbye to my parents and they left on their long journey home to the Blue Mountains.  We had a wonderful time with them and enjoyed some great outings and activities as well as thoroughly appreciating having them experience our daily lives with us.  I hope I get a chance to write about a few of the things we did together but I am not making any promises as life continues to be busy here.

As I write this Andrew is in Australia, staying with his mother in Alice Springs.  We received the very sad news on October 2nd that his dad had passed away.  Andrew left the next day to be with his mum and will be there until the end of October.  The last time we were with his family was in May 2005 whn all five of us visited Australia for a month.  B9 was able to meet his Telford Grandparents for the first time.  Below is a favourite photo of ours showing three generations of Telford men.  B9 was only four at the time.  Ken will be sadly missed by all of us.

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Books read this summer (My dad’s list)

As summer draws to a close it is time to recap on the books read in this house over the last few months.  My parents have been staying with us and my dad has spent more time reading here than he would have at home so I will start with his list.  Most books were drawn from the Ottawa Library.  By this point in the post he has taken over writing and I will just wait and post the finished list with his comments and reviews.

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society Mary Ann Shaffer & Annie Barrows

This book was in the house when we arrived. An easy to read insight into life on the Channel Island of Guernsey during the German occupation of World War 2.

Walking on the Land Farley Mowat

I had read several Mowat books on an earlier visit to Canada and have  become aware of his activism in the anti-whaling cause in the Southern Ocean as a visitor to Australia  in recent years. This book recalls a story told in part in some of his earlier writings, a story which put him on a collision course with some people in high places. It is the story of some of the indigenous people of the Arctic whose life and livelihood was destroyed, in large part through the neglect and apparent “could not care” attitudes of people whose responsibility included the welfare of the indigenous people.

The story was new to me, but sadly and remarkably similar to some of the stories that I know only too well concerning the indigenous people of my own country.

The Custodian of Paradise Wayne Johnston

I had read “The Colony of Unrequited Dreams” on an earlier visit and was keen to learn more of Sheilagh Fielding’s story.  Johnston is a great writer and the story engaged me until the last page.  I think there is more yet to be told; perhaps there will be a third book in the trilogy when next we visit.

Baltimore’s Mansion Wayne Johnston

Newfoundland, the last province to join the Canadian Confederation. What a time it must have been. Johnston’s memoir of Newfoundland through the lives of his grandfather, father and his own give a unique insight to the place of Newfoundland in Canada, and a background to the setting of the two novels mentioned above.

Memoirs-All Rivers Run to the Sea Elie Wiesel

Elie Wiesel was a Romanian-Hungarian Jew who was a survivor of Auchwitz, though most of his family perished.  The first chapter “Childhood” was difficult – so many people, so many relationships, it was hard to follow and I almost put it back in the library bag.  The second chapter “Darkness” is his memoir of the period 19 March 1944 to 11 April 1945, from the arrival of the Germans into his town of Sighet on the day of the Jewish Feast of Purim to the liberation by American soldiers from Auchwitz just over a year later.  He managed to stay with his father until a few days before the liberation when his father died.

Despite its distressing subject, I found this chapter uplifting in an unexpected way and remarkably without bitterness.  Later chapters tell of his life as a writer, as a journalist and author, telling the story of  the young nation state of Israel and the Zionist hope

Speaking My Mind Tony Campolo

This book is sub-titled “The Radical Prophet Tackles the Tough Issues Christians are Afraid to Face.”  Campolo stands solidly in the evangelical stream but he is offering a strong critique of American Fundamentalism, whilst at the same time acknowledging that evangelical churches are no longer “the monolithic mass of social conservatives”, a phrase which may have once been true.   It is an examination of the US scene and the American church, but I see much correlation with Australia Christian scene.

The Right Attitude to Rain Alexander McCall Smith

The World According to Bertie Alexander McCall Smith

I was introduced to McCall Smith during a previous visit to Ottawa. His books have now become very popular in Australia where he has also visited to introduce his characters.  Bertie and his family (and all their neighbours) and Isobel Dalhousie and the dilemmas she confronts provide enjoyable relaxation amidst many of the other books.

Five Generations of the Kennedy Family (returned to the library without noting the author’s name)

I came upon this book in the biography section during the week of Ted Kennedy’s death.  It is a large book of and I read with interest major sections identified from its comprehensive index.  Without question, the Kennedy brothers had a profound influence on American politics and world affairs. With the death of Ted, I am wondering whether there are other family members who will follow.

Prime Ministers:  Ranking Canada’s Leaders J.L. Granatstein,  Norman Hillmer

As a keen student of Australian history and politics, I was interested to gain an overview of some of the major issues of Canadian politics since confederation. This small book provides a very succinct overview. Each chapter provides an essay on the leadership of the respective Prime Ministers and ranks the quality of their leadership from Great through Average to Failure. I don’t think anyone has yet written a similar ranking book of our PM’s, although there are many weightier books to read at home as, no doubt, there are here.

With two more weeks of our holiday, the list is incomplete and the reading continues, but it time to post the entry. It is a privilege to be a contributor instead of an occasional commenter.

ND

One under the Son

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Yesterday Andrew and the two girls played in the One Under the Son volleyball tournament hosted by CHRI, the local Christian radio station.  The rest of the team was made up of friends from church and friends of friends.  The tournament was a fund-raiser for Camp Cherith.  Neither of the girls have had much volleyball experience but had a lot of fun.  Andrew turned out to be quite an asset to the team as he has played a little lately and he is, well, rather tall!

B8 and I along with my parents joined them around lunch time to watch and encourage.  It was hot!   We found some shade and occasionally a breeze caught us, but the players on the courts did not have those benefits.    The team did not make it to the finals but did have a win!

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Birthday blessings

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Our older daughter turned fifteen on Sunday.  We went to church in the morning and then came home for some lunch and gift giving.  During the afternoon we watched the weather for a break in the ever present rain so we could squeeze in a bit of tennis.  After we had played  for a short time the black clouds rolled in and the rain started falling.  On the way home we spotted a cricket match, a fairly rare event around here.  Andrew stopped and chatted to the spectators for a while to find out that the teams were made up of Sri Lankans;  Ottawa vs. Montreal.

At L15’s request we watched a couple of episodes of MasterChef Australia before our own MasterChef cooked up Shrimp Two Ways.  L15 had asked for a shrimp pasta sauce for dinner which Andrew cooked but also made a skewered shrimp entree on salad greens.  Both were delicious.  We finished with a raspberry swirl cheesecake and time to watch another couple of episodes of MasterChef.   I did mention we are a little addicted to it didn’t I.  Not only has it changed our approach to cooking, it has added to our vocabulary also.  We no longer talk about serving the dinner, instead we “plate up”.  We sit down and deliver critiques on the food in front of us, encouraging each other to ” take it to the next level”

When we were about to begin watching L15 handed Andrew and I a gift, which was surprising, it wasn’t our birthday after all.  Inside there was a beautiful card thanking us for our love and support over the last  fifteen years.  In the gift bag was a dvd, made by L15, featuring pictures of her from birth until now, with the Taylor Swift song, The Best Day, playing in the background.  I was overwhelmed.  Neither of us had any idea she had been making the dvd over the past few months.  She found all the photos she needed and did all the work on a friend’s computer so we would have no idea.   She  gathered up photos a few at a time whenever she knew she and her friend P would be spending a few hours together without me around.  Apparently it got tricky a few times explaining to me why she had to go over there, not stay here.  The end result is beautiful and as you can imagine made me cry.  It is not just the photos and the memories they evoke that mean so much to me but also her desire to thank us in such a special way.

Now as always she continues to bring us joy and bless our family.

Mid-summer

I guess we are in the middle of summer, but you wouldn’t know it from the weather.  It has been raining just about every day.  Apparently Ottawa has already broken its own record for July rainfall. Needless to say the grass is very green and the weeds and flowers  are very tall.

L14 and A13 have been at a music camp all week, as counsellors, not campers.  The camp is for young Suzuki musicians and the girls keep track of their respective groups, supervising them in craft time and gym and making sure they get to their music classes.  They don’t actually play violin during the camp at all.

B8 has spent the week with me.  Not terribly exciting for him as I have been doing cleaning and sorting around the house.  The painting is finished but we haven’t put the room back together yet.  L14 will not move in until October as my parents will be staying with us until then.  Less than a week until they arrive!

B8 has spent quite a bit of time with his lego this week including designing a new gadget for a competition he read about in his lego magazine.  He has to take a picture and write a description of it.  He has already written a short story describing how his gadget helped an agent diffuse a bomb!  Today I suggested he make a house of cards.  He has taken over the dining room table and has so far used 5 packs of cards.

Most  evenings we  watch MasterChef Australia.  We know it has concluded in Australia but we are still working through the episodes and are down to the last seven contestants.   It continues to be a positive influence on the chefs around here.  Last weekend we enjoyed Paella with mussels, chicken and prawns.  As I write L14 is preparing Mushroom Risotta for lunch.  Mmmm.

Paint on the soles of my feet

And on my knees, under my fingernails, in my hair, but most importantly on the walls.  I am painting a room, something I have never done before and was quite apprehensive about doing.

Last week I began the fiddly but essential preparation.  I sanded, vacuumed and washed the bright aqua, glossy walls, then the grubby dented beige base boards and door trim.  Not the window trim, mind you, as there is none.  As with many of our windows there is no trim at all!  L14 picked a colour as this will be her room eventually and then I painted a sample patch.

Next came the frustrating and never ending task of cutting in.   I did less than a metre before giving up in disgust.  It looked terrible.   When Andrew came home he demonstrated, advised and encouraged so I began again.  It took a long time to do all the cutting in, sanding of drippy bits and repainting.  Many rooms have four walls which means four flat expanses to paint.  Some might have an alcove or a closet which extends into the room a bit.  Our house is full of rooms with strange protrusions ranging in depth from half an inch to a couple of feet.  The room I am painting is no exception it has eleven flat surfaces making up the walls, which translates into many edges to cut in!

But that is behind me now as today I began rolling.  The roller is much more satisfying and more forgiving also.  It is beginning to look like it just might work, and it definitely won’t be called the blue room any more.  Of course there is the trim still to come, which I imagine will be like cutting in all over again…

Happy Birthday girl

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Earlier in the week we celebrated A13 ‘s birthday with some good food and some good friends.  She and L14 made a delicious breakfast of fruit salad followed by ham and eggs on toast.  We watched as A13 opened some cards and gifts including a card from B8 containing rhyming clues which sent her on a hunt around the house for the gifts he had hidden .  She was wearing some of the gifts her sister  bought  for her a few weeks ago when they went shopping together.

She spent the morning playing games with B8 and trying out some of her gifts.  One of them is a set for designing clothes for a  2D mannequin.  It is a variation on paper dolls but is all about the fashion design.  There is no cutting out just loads of different shapes and styles which can be combined and then texture plates which can be used to make the different fabrics on paper.  I might just have to try it myself!

Friends dropped in for lunch which was chicken and salad, cooked the way A likes it with Franks Hot Sauce.  The friends were convinced to stay while their mother went for groceries which enabled everyone to watch the final episode of Gilligan’s Island.  It was an hour and a half special made some time after the series ended where they were finally rescued.  According to the keen Gilligan fans who watched it was not worth it!

Dinner was Sushi rolls, which A13 has been wanting to make for a while.  We don’t make them often because  they are time consuming.  As a birthday cake she requested cheesecake so I bought one and  made a gluten free one.  It was not hard so I plan to make more in the future,  and will play around with gluten free crust ideas.

As we have mentioned before we have become avid followers of MasterChef Australia, so we watched a couple of episodes after dinner.   Not only is it entertaining I think it is having a positive effect on the culinary efforts of everyone in the family.  We had a very happy and delicious day celebrating with our delightful Miss A.

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